Yunyun Ren

Yesterday I take part in a wedding of my friends. Both of them are the best friend of mine, after 8years, the go to the paradise of their happiness.

 During the wedding party, the groom and the bride exchange the wedding ring, they are two beautiful Tiffany rings. When we see the whole process of their wedding, I think I also witness their happiness.

There is an old Legend in Greek, it is said that .when people marry they will give rings to each other, and they will take the rings in each other’ Middle finger. It is because that they believe that there a vascular that is Directed to their hearts. When they give the rings to each other, it is also means to Promise their lover by heart.

But come back to the real life, there is not applicable somehow .Now, especially in this time, people  must bear great pressure because of the high development of technology  and  open civilization, there seems little responsibility to marriage and love .so they can marry and divorce as they want ,and now there is a popular word which is Flash Marriage. Its meaning is to marry and divorce in a fast speed. I also think this is the most appropriate word to this phenomenon.

And I think this is the high development of people ideology. Because they are pursuing their own freedom.