Yunyun Ren

Yesterday I take part in a wedding of my friends. Both of them are the best friend of mine, after 8years, the go to the paradise of their happiness.

 During the wedding party, the groom and the bride exchange the wedding ring, they are two beautiful Tiffany rings. When we see the whole process of their wedding, I think I also witness their happiness.

There is an old Legend in Greek, it is said that .when people marry they will give rings to each other, and they will take the rings in each other’ Middle finger. It is because that they believe that there a vascular that is Directed to their hearts. When they give the rings to each other, it is also means to Promise their lover by heart.

But come back to the real life, there is not applicable somehow .Now, especially in this time, people  must bear great pressure because of the high development of technology  and  open civilization, there seems little responsibility to marriage and love .so they can marry and divorce as they want ,and now there is a popular word which is Flash Marriage. Its meaning is to marry and divorce in a fast speed. I also think this is the most appropriate word to this phenomenon.

And I think this is the high development of people ideology. Because they are pursuing their own freedom.

Many people said that the girl now are not good ,what they want to have is just want to have some money …I agree with them ,to be honest ,there are many girl married with money …they have a rich life ,they can buy what they want to buy ，they can wear Fashion Shoes and Designer clothing…but when they girls becomes old …their husband will say goodbye to him ,that is really a terrible thing ,but there are many girl married with love …sucn as my sisters ,they are very happy ,maybe they are not rich at first ,but after some years ,they have their own house ,their own car ,and their own baby ,the most important is that they have their own happiness …

I think I am great on this side ,my boyfriend is poor ,he has no money …but he treat me very well ,later on, I know ,maybe he is not good ,because when we become familier with each other ,we have quarrels often ,but I do not think this is a problem …we have no money …I think this is not a problem ,I just want youo know that no matter what happened,I will always be here …I will always with you …

But I do not know ,how long I can persist …I also do not know what will happened in the future ,if one day ,you can not support me when I have my own baby …will I still with you ,I do not think so .

What I want to have ,I always ask myself in my heart ,when I was young ,I want to be a business woman ,maybe because of my father ,he always tells me that I should work hard and never satisfied ,so no matter what I come across ,I always keep this work in my mind .i want to ne a business woman ,so I try my best to learn morn when I was at school ,I try to make friends with all kinds of people .try to learn morn knowledge from the society , what I want to thanks is one of my experience ,that is Amway ,I have learn a lot of knowledge in Amway ,such as some knowledge about health ,some knowledge of the attitude to deal with something ,some knowledge about the society ,now ,when I stand in a people ,I can find some topic to talk with him .when I graduated from school ,I find a job to learn ,this is a job about my major ,I have learn a lot from it ,now I am search a chance to finish my dream . I totally agree with this old saying that is attitudes decided all. I think that we are young, we are not stable, so we have unlimited potential, so we have to work hard to make my own life, earn much money to have such as tiffany jewellery. Go, go.